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Increasing Your Sense of Deserving

April 21, by Barbara Sunden

Do you believe you deserve to live your dreams? In order to manifest our dreams, we need to align our self-image with the life we would love living.  If your sense of deserving isn’t wide and deep enough to hold your dream, you will fall short.  How do you know if you deserve your dream?  If you are breathing, you deserve to have your heart’s desire.  Simply by being alive you are worthy and deserving of your dream.

You wouldn’t feel the longing if you didn’t have the capacity to realize your dream.

Here are three keys to increasing your sense of deserving:

  1. Focus on the Good. Circumstances are bad only if you perceive them as such.  Instead of panicking when life appears to throw you a curve, wait and invite God to reveal the good. You are naturally good because God created you.
  1. Let Go of Past Mistakes. It’s hard to move confidently into the life you have imagined if you are carrying deadweight.  When you persist in carrying the baggage of your childhood, your shame or your belief that you are unlovable, you have no room for greater possibility.
  1. Practice Gratitude to Increase Your Sense of Deserving. An “attitude of gratitude” enables you to construct your dream on a solid foundation of deserving.  Begin by spending a day giving thanks to those you’ve criticized.  From there, build a pattern of daily gratitude.  When we begin to appreciate those we once condemned or took for granted, the field around the object of our appreciation broadens, attracting to itself even greater good.
    When you practice these three principles, you will feel your sense of deserving expand and you’ll begin to see unexpected good things flow into your life.  I want you to know, you Deserve the BEST!

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Filed Under: Barbara's Adventures, Elements of Excellence Tagged With: gratitutde, living your dreams, manifesting your best life, you deserve it

About Barbara Sunden

Barbara Sunden is a global leader women in leadership and a highly sought after advisor and faciliator of leadership events. Barbara inspires one of the largest direct sales industry's brands with her decades long record of taking her teams to the top. Today, Barbara, now embarking on a mission to empower elite leaders, is a master trainer, and is a powerful presence to encourage women in business through her programs and Beautifully Bold retreats at Leaders Take the Lead at BarbaraSunden.com!

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