Are you ever curious why some people seem to be living a life they truly love while others seem to be just making it through each day hoping things will get better?
Being curious, I decided to ask a few people what their dreams were. They quickly responded by passionately sharing their heart’s desires. I
heard dreams of owning a business, being able to buy a house, wishes for retirement, a better job or career advancement and with each reply I quickly realized these were ‘someday wishes’ not goals. Things they hoped for but to the people I asked they either had no plan to realize their dreams or they lacked the belief that they could make their dream a reality. For them their dreams seemed to be elusive, outside of their control.
I realized everyone can have a dream but few know how to set a goal. Very few people understand that goal setting is a process. Taking your dream from a vision to reality starts in how you picture it…. The image in your mind must be in detail, clearly defined.
The secret to setting a goal is;
- Falling in love with your dream.
- Being so passionate about it that you think about it countless times throughout the day.
- Taking time to write affirmations about it.
- Finding pictures or brochures of it.
- Writing out your goal over and over again each day.
I remember when I decided I wanted to set a bodacious goal to earn a 7-figure income. It was such an exciting and truly scary goal but at the same time one that challenged and motivated me. I knew I needed to keep a clear vision of my goal in front of me to stay focused on the objective so I looked for symbols that would work as constant reminders. I bought a coffee mug with symbol of a million dollar bill on it and used it everyday. I found file folders with the same million dollar symbols on the cover and I used them daily. I even had some fun faux Million-dollar bills, which I placed on my desk, used as bookmarks and gave out to friends. These were visual reminders of my target (my objective), a silent declaration.
An important part of setting a goal is immersing yourself in your vision.Finding ways to keep your target in full view.
The Process of Setting a Goal is:
- Visualize it – what does it look like?
- Clearly Define it – see it in detail – write it down!
- Stay Focused – focus on your goal several times a day with words, pictures and emotions ‘as if’ you’ve already achieved it.
- Create a Plan of Action – what are your action steps? Most people get stuck on the PLAN of ACTION part of the goal setting process.
- An Effective Plan of Action is:
- Knowing your objective..
- Identify the steps necessary to achieve the goal.
- Use lists – prioritize your tasks.
- Delegate – create a support team.
- Establish a deadline or time line to reach your goal.
- Be …. S. M. A. R. T.
- Specific – what exactly are you going to do?
- Measurable – Track your progress.
- Achievable – Develop the abilities and skills to reach them.
- Relevant – Your goal should be motivating and exciting to you.
- Time-based – When do you want to reach your goal?
I did reach a 7-figure income (many times) …. It took goal setting, commitment, action and belief. Yes, Success Begins with ‘S’ for Set Your Goals.
“Our goals can be reached through a vehicle of a plan in which we must fervently believe, and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no other route to success.” – Stephen A. Brennen
Marilyn says
Thanks, Barbara, for a reminder for goal setting. I have lost my way somewhat and I will set up my goal to be successful with action!!!
Love your blog.
Marie Pompilu s says
Thank you
Bernice C.Johson says
Thank you for another reminder.